The Things I Never Document By Nurse Krypton

The Things I Never Document By Nurse Krypton

Nurse Krypton, also known as Arowosegbe Obafemi David, is a registered nurse, content creator, and advocate for healthcare and nursing education. He founded the Krypton Initiative Team Foundation and the Nightingale Legacy Project, initiatives focused on community outreach and mentoring nursing students. He is also the author of “Nurse Krypton Chronicles,” a memoir about his nursing journey.

Nurse Krypton wrote:

 

The Things I Never Document

They ask for notes.

Vitals. Medications. Interventions.

Blood pressure at 9:00 a.m.

Wound dressing changed at noon.

IV line flushed at 3:15 p.m.

But there is no box to tick for heartbreak.

No field for the minutes I stood

holding the hand of a man who had just lost his wife.

No template for the way I swallowed my own tears

so he could fall apart in peace.

I charted her temperature, her oxygen, her pain score.

But not the way she smiled when I braided her hair,

because she said it made her feel less like a patient,

and more like a woman again.

There’s no line to write that I paused at the door,

took a breath, whispered a prayer,

and asked for the strength to stay gentle,

even when I was breaking too.

I document the time I administered morphine,

but not how I sat beside her afterward,

listening to her talk about her late husband,

while death hovered like a shadow in the corner of the room.

I sign off tasks.

Not moments.

Not the way a teenage boy let out a sob

the moment his mother’s monitor went flat.

Not the way I caught him before he hit the floor.

Not the way I stayed long after my shift ended,

because no one should grieve alone.

The system asks for symptoms.

But it doesn’t ask for the stories.

The fears. The sacred silences.

The way I sometimes go home

carrying names I’ll never forget

and faces I still pray for in the dark.

Because nursing is more than procedures.

It is presence.

It is prayer.

It is a thousand little acts of love

that never make it into the report.

So if you ask what I do,

know this:

Yes, I take vitals.

Yes, I give meds.

But I also bear witness.

To life.

To death.

To pain.

To resilience.

I am a nurse.

And the truest parts of my work

will never be documented.”

 

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When is the right time to move into a retirement village?

When is the right time to move into a retirement village?

Money Mag’s Martin Hesse wrote in the April 2022 issue: “WHEN’S THE RIGHT TIME TO MOVE INTO A RETIREMENT VILLAGE?”

“Moving into a retirement community is a big decision for retirees and their families, and there are many considerations to take into account.

Retirement villages offer the advantages of independent living in your own space, without the time-consuming maintenance of your own home and there is anecdotal evidence that such a lifestyle even boosts your life expectancy, thanks to the amenities they offer.

But how do you know the time is right to make such a move? And once this decision has been made, how do you choose the accommodation best for you? This is a very subjective decision and one that is often taken when people’s health starts to fail. The vast majority of people leave it later than they should. The increase in stress levels of moving home is directly proportional to the age of the mover. Everyone handles stress differently, so this is not a universal law, but moving at 65 is generally far less stressful than moving home at 75. One needs to be proactive and understand that age-related illnesses come upon one suddenly. The retiring baby-boomer generation is more proactive in this regard and there are more people moving into mature lifestyle villages in their late 50s early 60s, which is the ideal time, bearing in mind modern villages cater for an active lifestyle.

CONSIDERATIONS FOR MOVING

  • Physical health: In later life, the importance of being able to access medical care quickly and easily while not breaking the bank, will become a priority, so having healthcare facilities and trained professionals close at hand means that you will be able to enjoy your golden years without worrying unduly about these unforeseen eventualities.
  • Mental health: Loneliness, boredom and social isolation become a reality as you age, particularly if you’re stuck behind high walls in the suburbs, nursing a spouse, or no longer able to drive. Retirement villages however are home to vibrant communities of elderly people who are keen to make new friendships, to stay active, and even to learn new skills.
  • Home and garden maintenance: Cooking, cleaning and gardening all get much more difficult as you age, and keeping up with home maintenance can be both onerous and costly. In modern retirement villages, professional teams take care of home maintenance, gardening, healthcare, housekeeping, laundry, and catering.
  • Security: At most professionally run retirement villages, 24-hour security is part of the package. And if you do go away on holiday, you can simply lock up and go, knowing your home is safe and secure.

CHOOSING THE RIGHT VILLAGE

It is advisable for prospective purchasers to visit at least five villages to make comparisons and also to draw up a comprehensive list of questions that should be satisfactorily answered by the salesperson. The list will be long but should always start with security, which is paramount. A wall or electrified fence and gatehouse alone are not sufficient. Security should include 24/7 CCTV monitoring of the fence line in a professionally operated control room with an armed response back-up.

Other questions to ask relate to health-care provision, the monthly levy and what it covers, community life and facilities, and the financial strength of the body corporate. Buyers must obviously also check that prices and payment options suit their budgets.

INDEPENDENCE WITHIN A COMMUNITY

Many senior living communities are aware that retired people don’t want to give up their independence; they simply want a structure that is beneficial to their needs and lifestyle. Retirement neighbourhoods can use technology, expert service providers, and a wealth of options for living, eating, enjoying exercise and entertainment to ensure that residents are independent and happy. On the other hand, living in a retirement community lessens isolation, provides security, companionship and care, and this has especially been the case during Covid restrictions, which have seen older people facing intense isolation. Living in a senior community can help residents create relationships with peers, carers, and service providers, and feel less alone. Many senior living communities allow pets, or in other cases, certain types of pets such as one small dog. Some facilities may offer care for pets if residents cannot care for their pets alone.

HEALTH BENEFITS

Enjoying leisure activities with friends, such as playing bridge or participating in a book club, have been found to protect cognitive skills. Physical activity, such as walking and hiking, gardening or yoga, is one of the most important things you can do for your health. Senior living communities also reduce the incidence of falls, one of the leading causes of injury and death. The likelihood of a fall going unnoticed in a senior community is low, as well-lit and clutter-free living areas prevent falls, and exercise and physical therapy can reduce their instances and severity.

MEDICAL CARE AND AMENITIES

Before choosing a senior living community, you should assess the level and quality of healthcare the community provides. Is there a frail care section? Does it have intermediate assisted-living accommodation? You should also confirm the community’s procedures in the event of an emergency, their disaster preparedness, and which hospitals will be used if admission is necessary. This will help ensure a person receives the right level of care and can avoid revisions to their routines after they move in.”

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